It has been said that there are three kinds of people in this world; those who make things happen, those who watch things happen and those who wonder what happened.
Which one are you? It really doesn’t matter unless you are unhappy with your choice. If things in your life are not working for you, you might want to change. Keep in mind that you are a living organism that is always growing. It is possible that you have outgrown your current position and are ready to evolve to a different level. Perhaps, you have become discontent with yourself and with the results and responses you are experiencing.
If you make things happen you are probably more pro-active and take responsibility for yourself and your life. You see yourself as powerful and able to control things in a good way. If you watch things happen you are probably more passive and dependent. You might be timid or you might not know that you can change things. If you wonder what happened you are probably asleep. You are unaware of your personal power and abilities.
Which kind of person do you want to be? Can you see yourself in a new light? You have to be able to see it before it can happen. If the new persona does not resonate with you it won’t materialize in your life. For something to occur it has to present itself to you in your mind and in your mind’s eye. It has to be believable and genuine.
Whatever kind of person you are or want to be is OK. Just be sure to stay true to your essence and your core values. Your essence is your fundamental nature. It is the most important part of your being. If you lack core values, it is imperative that you develop them before you proceed. Start by being loving. Be kind. Be helpful. Be generous. Be the best that you can be.
Patricia Frank is a Licensed Psychotherapist. She can be reached at 305- 788-4864, Psychotherapy.firstname.lastname@example.org